Hello Friends!
Why do I get so emotional and who would have thought that a simple job of ordering a repeat prescription would have seen me end up a snivelling heap of tears?
Pass the tissues, it's the end of an era.
I don't think anyone can remember a time when we didn't have a General Practitioner, aka a doctor, in the City. I recall my mother speaking of Dr. Elliot who cared for her since she was a child, and I remember my first GP, Dr George Middleton, who administered care for me and countless many others over several decades. I was one of the first babies born shortly after he and his own family moved to St Davids to give many years of service to the community as our only GP. Since his retirement we've been served by many GP's including Drs Hamilton, Grimshaw, Sheldon, Van Kempen, Ferguson, Kauschinger, and Riley to name but a few.
How the Practice has grown with the NHS and changing needs of the community. Back in the day, we had one GP and one District Nurse, who between them cared for everyone 24/7. If you got taken ill "out of hours" you telephoned the doctor at his home and he came out regardless of the time, day or night. We had an ambulance kept in the village, also on call 24/7. A far cry from today when you wait hours for an ambulance to arrive and it is quicker to drive yourself to the closest A&E Department.
There was no such thing as booking an appointment with a receptionist. If you wanted to see the Doctor you simply showed up at the Surgery, Monday through Friday, between 9:00 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. or between 5:00 p.m. and 6:00 p.m. and took your turn. Going to the doctor was a social event! We crammed into the tiny waiting room with fourteen chairs and waited for the ♪♪ding dong ♪♪ of the bell announcing Next Patient Please. A mother with a crying baby or toddler was always invited to go in first! A pile of magazines sat on a table in the middle of the room, but they mostly remained unread as we all chatted amicably, it was a good place to get all the latest local news!
The District Nurse, Nurse Davies, could be seen cycling her way around the district, come rain or shine, to get from patient to patient for the housebound. Always in uniform, topped with a Gabardine raincoat, nothing stopped this indomitable force from visiting her patients. In later years she drove a Morris Minor. She would be in attendance at the Surgery to assist with dressings, stitches, phlebotomy, and other jobs during opening hours. She worked alone, a far cry from today with multiple Practice Nurses present for a multitude of tasks and clinics.
Then came the days of the receptionist. The first one I remember was Mrs Catherine Simpson, a lovely lady, totally in charge, she tolerated no nonsense! Her job was to pull patient notes for the doctor and pass them through a tiny hatch into the consulting room, as well as other general duties. Her "office" was no bigger than a broom cupboard, which with it's west facing aspect became a furnace in the summer evenings, a far cry from today with a team of receptionists on duty all day long, operating state of the art computers with an endless list of duties and jobs from ordering repeat prescriptions, booking appointments, organising tests, and so much more. Nowadays, there is even a Practice Manager. An entire company of workers!
These days it is appointment only and since the Pandemic many appointments are telephone consultations. My, how things have changed.
When my mother went into labour with me, it was Nurse Davies who was called, and it was she who bundled my mother into her car to whisk her off to the nearest hospital maternity unit, with the message to my grandmother, "if the baby arrives in Newgale, we'll just turn around and come back home!"
When, aged just six weeks old, I was very ill with a bronchial infection, it was Doctor Middleton who attended to me several times a day and gave my mother the advice, support and care needed to bring me back to the healthy, bouncing baby I became.
When my grandmother died unexpectedly in the early hours of a cold and sombre March morning, it was Doctor Middleton who was at her bedside within ten minutes of us telephoning him. He took care of everything efficiently, sympathetically, and professionally, making things as easy as he could for my mother.
Similar stories could be told by every household in the area.
And now the Surgery is closing its doors for good. It is a sad day. I won't go into the whys or the wherefores, or the politics, or rumours that abound, it is happening and despite our protest marches and meetings, the good fight we fought against the bureaucrats of the NHS, the decision is made and will not be undone. We are being transferred to another surgery in the next village over. Things will never be the same. The impact on our tiny community is colossal.
On Monday morning, I telephoned my monthly repeat prescription into the surgery that has served me and others so well for so long, for the last time. I could not hold back the tears as I spoke to the lovely, kind receptionist on the phone. Jackie is a friend now, and I could hear her voice cracking too. Next time it will be a different voice, a stranger who takes my request.
Within a few weeks this old way of doing things will become history. Children will grow up not knowing what a "house call" is, or what it is like to sit and wait your turn. This way, the old way, it will be forgotten and become lost in the mists of time, fading slowly from memory until but a whisper, then gone forever.
I cannot begin to express my gratitude to all the doctors, nurses, receptionists and support staff who have cared for me , my family, and countless others over the years, their presence in the City will be sorely missed.
It is the end of an era.
Until next time
Stay safe, stay well
Debbie xx
So sorry to hear this, Deb, you must feel devastated. We are lucky to have enough doctors here, but in rural areas it's also bad.
ReplyDeleteTake care of yourself . Hugs, Valerie
thank you, Valerie. I just wanted to make a brief record of how things once were before they disappear for ever.
DeleteDeb, the personal touch with our health professionals is over I must say! At least that's what we are seeing here. There is quite a shortage of medical personnel to fill all the specialties we need and we live in a much more populated area than you. I remember when I was a child the doctor came to our home. Also when our last child needed to be seen by a doctor, he came to our home as well. Those days are over!
ReplyDeleteI agree, but in a way the opposite applies here, for no one wants to come work in an isolated, rural area, miles from London or Cardiff. Even the government incentive of £20,000 relocation bonus is insufficient to entice anyone! Of course, our situation isn't helped by Brexit, the repercussions of which we will pay for over many years to come. The world is changing faster than the likes of us can keep up!
DeleteIt is sad to think of all the changes in our lifetimes. The one constant is change...and not always for the better, I might add. Sorry for your changes now to deal with.
ReplyDeleteThank you. I don't think there is anyone in the community who supports this move. It is what it is, and as you say, the only constant is change.
DeleteSo sad, perhaps it won't be as bad as you fear - I hope so.
ReplyDeleteRepeat prescriptions here are all done online - very easy
Thank you. I have managed my prescriptions on line for many years but now the online service is already shut down in this ridiculous move.
DeleteThis is very sad.
ReplyDeleteHowever, in many ways I enjoyed reading your post because it bought back many of my early memories when we used to visit the family Doctor and my first Doctor was a Doctor Sheldon! It was so lovely to see a Dr. Sheldon in your list :)
Times they are a changin' as the song goes but alas not always for the better, BUT we make the best we can from them ... onwards!
Taking time to say happy October, I hope you can enjoy the Autumn colour that is beginning to show.
My good wishes.
All the best Jan
Thank you, Jan, indeed the times they are! We will muddle through and come out the other end, bruised and battered, into a Brave New World, and when this is done and the dust settled no doubt there will be a fresh cause {there already is for those who have the energy to fight the DARC plans}
DeleteOctobers will come and go, and like you and many others I will continue to enjoy them. Your blog, yesterday on October is lovely. Debbie
You should send this to Eluned Morgan. It's very sad that it's closing its doors for the last time.
ReplyDeleteThank you, but I don't think she'd give a hoot. Although her mother and late father both would have known all the GP's mentioned and know the system of old as it has changed over the years, as far as she is concerned she has ducked out of commenting on the matter under conflict of interest.
DeleteA lovely poignant post Debbie...so much is changing in our world, it's difficult to think back without feeling sad. I remember our 'family doctor' so well - he literally saved my life when I was 12 by working out that my appendix was about to burst and telling my Mum to drive me straight to hospital rather than waiting for an ambulance...we just made it. And that hospital no longer has an A & E department either. Sending you love and hoping that the transition (while very difficult) is at least a smooth one. xx
ReplyDeleteThank you, Rachel. Yes, these are strange and unfamiliar days in which we live. We must continue to hold out with hope for the best outcome. My prescription record is already transferred and that has not gone smoothly! Give Elsie a cwtch from me! xx
DeleteThngs were certainly different, nowadays we are lucky if we see the same doctor twice. Our surgery has about a dozen doctirs whi each work just vertain days. I have a named GP but I don't know who it is. The personal touch has gone. Now it is a career rather than a vocation, I could never imagine doctors going on strike in the past.
ReplyDeleteThis is such a beautiful -- and sad -- post. When you described the waiting room, I had visions of Doc Martin, where everyone knew each other. I haven't heard of a house call in ages, but I remember when our family doc came when my mother was ill before she died. And, visits for myself when I was a child. I am lucky to have a doc I've had for about 30 years. He'll be retiring at the beginning or middle of next year and I'll miss him terribly. I hope your new doc(s) will be good ones and caring and that the transition isn't too difficult technically, but I know emotionally it will be terribly hard.
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