Monday, 5 October 2020

A Little Box of Cosy Hugs

Hello Friends!

Thank you to everyone who left such lovely comments on my last blog.  Your words and kindness touched my heart.

Much as I enjoy playing with fonts, I like this one, Eagle Lake, the best, so I shall stick with it for a while.  It is a nostalgic reminder of my schooldays, when I loved my art class, especially when we had calligraphy days!  We only had black or blue India Ink, but oh, what fun making all those deliciously swirly marks on paper, and the joy of creating small panels of words was inspirational.  I was good at calligraphy, and was a much favoured pupil as I was allowed a pot of both blue and black ink!

We've had some lovely sunny days, mostly a little windy, but, oh! my! the temperatures have dropped like a stone, and my lovely neighbour over the garden wall and I are in full agreement, it's time to put away the Summer clothes and bring out our cooler weather things.  Sad, but true, although I see it as an opportunity to indulge in hygge!

When I first encountered that word, hygge, I didn't know it was pronounced hoo-gah, and I kept switching between higgie or hugger. Well, my pronunciation was off, but the concept was already here, for hygge, to me, is like living in a cosy box of little hugs that comfort us in the colder, darker days of Autumn, right through into early Spring. I have always lived a hygge life, it just didn't have a name before.

Someone is playing Peek a Boo!

I think hygge is a different thing for different people.  Some of the delights of hygge that are special to me are my warm, cosy living room with its heavy curtains that keep out the long, dark evenings; sitting by candlelight and burning aromatherapy oils; snuggling under soft, cotton quilts and pillows; sipping mugs of steaming hot chocolate; a nip of home made sloe gin from my hip flask on a long cold walk; the scents in the kitchen of pumpkin spice, cinnamon and nutmeg; reading books {especially revisiting the old, familiar stories of old}; and quiet, slow activities such as painting and colouring in, knitting, or sewing a cosy quilt.  


Hygge is a full cake tin or two, and baking my favourite cakes, such as Madeira Cake, rich and dense, full of ground almonds.  The kitchen fills with the fragrance of almonds and lemons when this is baking.  Madeira Cake is so called as it was once a favoured thing to eat with a glass of Madeira wine.  I'll second that!  


 My other favourite cake tin filler is Seed Cake. Another one that when baking fragrances the kitchen with the scent of Caraway seed and oranges.  Although both cakes look similar, they have their own unique qualities, and both are a perfect accompaniment for a mug of tea at Elevenses or Threeses.


It's taking a long walk along the Welsh country lanes, wrapped up warmly in a knitted hat, scarf and gloves, wearing my hiking boots with chunky socks that wrinkle around my ankles keeping out the cold as it nips at my feet, then coming home, rosy cheeked and red nosed, into a warm and welcoming cottage for a hot drink with a piece of cake, snuggling in my favourite chair by a toasty warm fire. 

I can tick the boxes for all of the above, except the toasty, warm fire, and that is something I miss so much, although the older I get I don't miss cleaning out the ashes and chopping the wood!

It's filling the kitchen with the fragrant scents, and hustle and bustle of baking for the freezer, and cooking up the hedgerow harvests.  I love making applesauce for the Winter days ahead, from my own homegrown apples.  This is a favourite gizmo of mine.  It's a very old design, although mine is new, and has remained unchanged for many, many years.  A true testament to "If it's not broken, don't mend it" if ever there was. Come apple season, I wouldn't be without it.  In under ten seconds, it peels, cores and slices a large apple.  Incredibly time saving when you have pounds and pounds of apples to process.



It's so many more than those things, and it will be uniquely different to all of us, so I hope you'll share, in the comments, your own personal hygge.

Over the years I seem to have accidentally fallen into collecting woollen blankets.  I don't know how it happened, it just did, and now I have quite a few, all travel and throw size so very useful to keep on my sofas and arm chairs if needed.  Some even roll up quite nicely to fit in a picnic basket or back pack too.  I'm saving the blankets for another blog.

Maybe Henry "Bomber" Hedgehog has one in his backpack? What do you think?  He's certainly all set for a day out rambling across the byways and country roads, with his binoculars and pipe, and his red beret.  Quite the dapper chap indeed.



Autumn days means time spent in the garden, when the weather permits, of course!  There's always lots of work to do, clearing and cleaning, and generally tidying up to tuck up and put the garden to bed for the Winter. Just the other day, I snatched a few hours between the winds and horizontal rain, and hidden away in a corner where I keep old pot and bits and bobs, I found this joyful bloom!



It's a deep pink Kaffir lily!  I already have the paler pink, and plenty of it too, for it spreads like wildfire, but I have always wanted this deeper pink, and it looks as if it's volunteered itself so I must find it a spot in the borders. 

Until next time
Stay safe and stay well
Deborah xo

29 comments:

  1. Hi Deb, what a lovely post today. Hugs is a great word, and you have made my mouth water thinking at all those wonderful foods and drinks, and I swear I could smell those cakes baking when you described them! We have a German word, 'Gemuetlichkeit' which has a similar meaning. And I love your Henry hedgehog! Thanks for sharing these lovely thoughts and ideas. Hugs, Valerie

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    1. Thank you, Valerie. I wish you could have a good slice of these cakes. They are simple, honest bakes with no frills or fuss, but perfect with a cup of tea or coffee.
      Hugs, Deb

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  2. Such a delightful hygge post, Deb. A "cozy box of hugs" is such a nice way to describe coming back into our homes as the weather turns toward Autumn then Winter. I recently redressed our beds for cooler weather--polar fleece blankets and heavier quilts. Like you, I have many afghans that will come out for quick access. I also keep my favorite sweaters on hooks and door knobs this time of year.
    The pretty lily is one I'm not familiar with--such a nice surprise! This is one volunteer I would love have pop up in my garden! Happy Autumn days to you, my friend. xoxo

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    1. Thank you, Martha Ellen. I know you long for the cooler days to temper that fierce Summer heat and humidity. It's so much more cosy and comforting to warm up with quilts and jumpers than it is to simply turn up the thermostat. xoxo

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  3. How cozy, Deb! You have what I understand hygge to be worked out perfectly! Thank you for your suggestion on my blog for locating my invisible comments. I checked it out, and there they were! They were once coming to my email; wonder what has brought about the change. Take care, and enjoy that cake!

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    1. Thank you, Nellie dear, I always think you have to feel the spirit of hygge. Glad I could help with the blog!

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  4. I was only talking to my sister about Madeira cake a day or so,ago and we were wondering where the name came from - now I can tell her. I think Martyn could have used the apple gizmo as he has been cooking lots of apples for freezing.

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    1. Thank you, Sue. You can get the apple gizmo from Lakeland. Seriously, I couldn't be without it this time of year, and if you are so inclined it yields perfect peelings for apple wine!

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  5. What a wonderful post. With it getting chilly as soon as the sun drops now, "cosy and warm" is what I want and need. Your volunteer lily is gorgeous. Love that color. Henry looks ready for a nice long jaunt into the woods and Treasure is having fun playing. And you are making me hungry with your baking, both cakes look and sound so delicious. Lovely photos and lovely post!

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    1. Thank you, my dearest friend. So happy you enjoyed my wittering today. Isn't the lily beautiful? I have plenty of the paler colour, which spreads like wildfire, so I hope this will do the same. xoxo

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  6. What a warm and lovely account of settling into Autumn! I felt all hugge myself just reading it!!:-)

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    1. Thank you, Susan. May the feeling of hygge remain until Christmas takes over!

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  7. Your last two posts have made me feel all seasonal and comfy!

    and how good to find that Lily appearing - what a treat.

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    1. Thank you, Sue. Yes, plants for free, especially when so pretty, are always a good thing.

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  8. What a beautifully written and cheering post. I can just imagine you all snug in your cottage surrounded by delightful items :) I have one of those apple gadgets - I must get it out and use it again as to be honest I had forgotten all about it (hidden on top shelf of the pantry!). The only thing I would add to your list of hygge pleasures is a glass of English Heritage ginger wine - just the thing for a cold frosty evening! :) By the way your cakes look delicious! :) Thank you for such a wonderful post.

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    1. Thank you, Ragged Robin. Oh, I do hope you get some use, with your apples, from the gadget. Seriously, if I didn't have it I would give most of my apples away! I might join you in a glass of ginger wine, it sounds delicious and warming, maybe the perfect accompaniment to the Madeira cake?

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  9. Yes it would be. You can get it online - they do a range of country wines by Lyme Bay wine company and most of the ones I have tried are good. The ginger one, if you like ginger, is divine though. Not cheap unfortunately. Just go to English Heritage shop. Timothy is very annoyed with me as he wanted to wave to Treasure he can just see her head and a bit of her body among the cushions :)

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    1. I looked, it's not cheap, but I do like ginger. With the hefty shipping I might wait until closer to Christmas and get some other little treats too. Always weary, though, as I sampled Rochester Ginger in Holland and Barrett. It was delicious, but when I opened it at home it was a disappointment. Treasure is waving back!

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  10. I'm like you -- I live the hygge life year round. But it really comes home to roost when it gets cold outside and we long for those quilts or blankets, cups of cocoa or tea and good books, warm socks, comfy clippers and yes, a cat is a plus. Unless, of course, she is a complainer! It's delightful to find a bloom. I still have a few but not many. I'm not ready for the winter to come but fall is lovely.

    The new font is really pretty. I checked my computer to see if I had that for Word but alas. No. And a thank you for all your visits and the most wonderful comments you leave at my "house." I always smile when I see your name pop up! Thanks!

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    1. Thank you, Jeannie. You are so kind. I think hygge is a lifestyle too, not just for Autumn. You should be able to adjust your font from the toolbar at the top of your blog. I'd send you a screen capture, but once I take one I can't find it on my laptop! I think it's the fourth tab in, a white A on a black ground, Font Type, and the drop down menu begins with 'Add More Fonts' Hope you can try it out! Deb

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  11. Lovely post, Deborah. Thanks for putting in the pronunciation of hyyge because I can never seem to remember it. Actually, I think someone is pulling our leg about how to pronounce it because it doesn't remotely look like they say it should sound. :-) I know it's not the same, but have you considered one of the YouTube fireplace fires? If you have a small computer screen you may not feel like you are sitting in front of a fire, but the crackly sound will be. You can imagine the rest! Here's one of my favorites: https://youtu.be/Ux8xAuQBdkk

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    1. Thank you, Cathy. Knowing how to pronounce hygge has come about by listening to Scandinavians pronounce it. Even the online assistant says "higgie"! I've seen those online fire simulations, but as I only use a small laptop I don't know how good it would be, but thank you for the link which I will check out.

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  12. When I first learned about hygge, I thought it was pronounced "Hi-gie" because that's how my screen reader says it. I still keep forgetting it isn't, because I'd been using it like that for so long before I learned how it was pronounced. Oops! Anyway, many of the things you consider hygge are hygge to me too.

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    1. Thank you, Victoria. I think my lifestyle is fairly hygge all year around, but Autumn does seem to bring it to the fore, doesn't it? Many of us share the same love of it. Auto text translations for both sight and hearing impaired still probably leaves much to be desired as I have discovered when reading subtitles on television screens at the bank, for example, but I am confident it will all improve.

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    2. Yes, Autumn does make you start thinking hygge thoughts. Like you said, you can be hygge all year round, but Autumn - and Winter - just lend themselves well to it. As for the text to speach and such: yes, they'll improve in time. They're already better than they were when I was first introduced to text to speach software.

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  13. What a cozy post, Deborah, and I really liked the font, but wasn't able to find it available when I checked the "new" blogger add-on fonts feature (sigh). This weekend, I made an apple crisp and as I peeled the apples thought that a peeler would have come in handy, but then it would be just another larger thing to store than my small hand peeler. Thankfully, I never have too many apples to peel. I liked reading about your hygge preparations and baking is one of mine as well as cozying up in warm thoughts and wooly socks with a nice cup of tea and a good read.

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    1. Thank you, Beatrice. It seems we all have different choices on Blogger, and it seems to me that it is dependent on our devices and maybe our browsers. Who knows?
      I love having lots of apples, for I often bake Susan Branch's recipe for Apple and Cranberry Crisp. My favourite pud.
      Stay safe and well.

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  14. Deborah, I love this post! I'm a year-round hygge person myself. And your writing pulls me right into your 'little box of cosy hugs.'

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    1. Thank you, Jean. Until hygge became the in thing, I had no idea how I live even had a name! I am glad you enjoyed this piece.
      Stay safe and well!

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