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Never Forget How Hard It Is To Continue To Show Up In Your Story That Looks Very Different To What You Thought It Would Be.
Thursday, 12 December 2024
Advent Day Twelve
Wednesday, 11 December 2024
Advent Day Eleven
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I shall give you a break from all the food! I think by now you can see why I called it the two day seige! Leftovers kept us going into New Year, and beyond in the case of slow perishable items such as chocolates and nuts. Surprisingly, although refrigeration was a thing of the future, nothing went off like it does today and no one got an upset tummy other than by self-imposed overindulgence! Our pantry was built by my father, north facing and partly underground with thick, insulating walls and a tiny window for ventilation, it worked brilliantly! I can see it in my mind's eye to this day.
It is pitch dark outside again. My tummy says it's breakfast time, my body says don't move. The clock ticking noisily says time to get up. My body says don't you dare move, stay put under the quilts. My hands, chilled from typing my blog since five a.m. are telling me to put them back under the covers or go get a mug of hot coffee to hold. The laptop provides some warmth that permeates through the layers under which I am snuggled. I am the Princess and the Pea in reverse!
Until tomorrow . . .
Tuesday, 10 December 2024
Advent Day Ten
There is an old building in the High Street currently called The Really Wild Emporium in its current incarnation, but previously it has been many things including a pasta cafe and a grocery shop. Let's go back to the time it was called City Bakery, owned by the Nash family. It was, as the name suggests, a bakery, Mr Nash was a master baker of some considerable skill. It was also a general grocery shop, and in the 1940's my mother was a shop girl at City Bakery. She left school in 1942 at age fourteen as you could do then, and she secured employment from Mr Nash.
{if you opt to follow the above link, go to their FB or Insta page to see photos of the frontage which is really quite lovely}
Now, you must remember that this was in the days that predate the highly commercialised state of Christmas that prevails today when Christmas can begin appearing in the shops in September or earlier. This was 1940's Britain. It was partly during World War II and after when rationing prevailed. Yet at the end of November the transformation happened when the hallway was decked out for Christmas and which led you along to the sitting room above the shop which Mrs Nash transformed into a Winter Wonderland of Christmas gifts and fripperies within the confines that rationing allowed.
There were dolls, teddies, wooden train sets and books, colouring books, crayons and paint, French knitting sets, embroidery sets, boxed handkerchiefs and oh! so much more to delight the children. As rationing lifted, tins of biscuits, sweets and chocolates, Turkish Delight and other goodies made their appearance. Shoppers were invited and enticed to step upstairs to the Christmas Emporium and pick whatever treats they could afford and their heart's desire. It was a magic wonderland of joy and excitement for children and adults alike. Orders were placed and deposits taken, and the long wait until Christmas Day began! It was a very different way of doing business back then.
A few of you have said you are amazed at my recall, well it's the way it is, I have always had an eye for detail and I guess it's showing up here. I do enjoy story telling and by regularly visiting certain memories it is a way of keeping them alive, not allowing them to fade into obscurity. I do know I often speak of things, long forgotten, and the listeners will say, "Goodness, yes, why we'd forgotten all about that!" Then I take them along the trip down Memory Lane.
Monday, 9 December 2024
Advent Day Nine
Sunday, 8 December 2024
Post Storm Catch up
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Thank you all for your concern. I hope you've all survived Darragh. It was a doozie and we took a pasting. Lots of damage around the village with trees down, roads blocked, the roof flew off the local petrol station, fascia boards and signage down in the road all over the place, flying slates, fencing panels and more. Most people heeded the Government advice and stayed indoors, but there's always someone who doesn't. Flood alerts were in place, and all ferry services cancelled while bus services were suspended and trains not running at all. The power is out in pockets across the peninsula, thankfully at the moment I'm okay but where power is concerned it can just go out. It also affects the water pumps, so I might have power but if it's off at the water station then we'll be without water.
It is still very blustery here with winds still around 50 mph but easing by the hour now.
I'm just going to share the missed Advent Calendar pictures today then pick back up tomorrow.
Until tomorrow . . .
Day Seven
Day Eight
Saturday, 7 December 2024
Storm Darragh
Hello Friends!
Due to the current situation with Storm Darragh, I will not be blogging until Monday when I will do a catch up on the Advent Calendar.
Winds currently 70 mph and increasing.
In the meantime, to all those of us in the UK, stay safe!
See you on the other side!
Friday, 6 December 2024
Advent Day Six
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Thursday, 5 December 2024
Advent Day Five
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When I was a child, the only thing that I knew about Christmas was that we celebrated the birth of someone called Baby Jesus, something that was enacted out at our school Nativity and in church at Sunday School, that I got lots of presents, we ate lots of treats, and that along with all my friends we would become sick with excitement in anticipation waiting for a jolly old man dressed in a red suit to come down our chimney after travelling across the sky in a sleigh pulled by flying reindeer to leave presents under a decorated tree in the front room. That probably sums up the opinion of most children in western civilization where Christmas is celebrated.
However, since I began to write the Blogmass five days ago, I've already discovered that I remember more than I realise. This was not what I had planned to do with this Blogmas, but those child's eyes of mine must have been drinking in the images going before them and lodging them somewhere deep inside me., so I am running with it. I am remembering far more detail than I am recording here and perhaps I'll skirt around the time pine needles from our Christmas tree ended up in the rice pudding. That was the last year we had a real tree!
Today I'm going to reminisce about Christmas cards, which we all know what they are. I'm going to talk about them in a personal context not historical, but in case anyone is interested, the first recorded evidence of a Christmas card is from the 1600's sent by a German physicist Michael Maier to King James I of England. The first commercial ones became available some two hundred years later, and the rest is history, although it must be asked, will the current increases in postage rates see the demise of the Christmas card?
There was so much love, and yes there was much excess too with all the eating and indulging, but historically there has always been excess at Christmas. I remember Christmas cards in particular flooding into the house day after day. Everyone sent and received more than I now care to imagine. My mother spent many nights in early December writing out and addressing the two hundred or more cards she would send. The Post Office {we had our own wee sorting office at the back of the Beehive Grocery Shop} took on extra delivery personnel. I recall my friend's mother was one of them, and she had to walk around the village pushing a large, weatherproof, supermarket style trolley that was compartmentalised by street to push handfuls of cards through hungry letterboxes. When full, it must have weighed a ton! Often she was wet and cold by the time she reached our house and was more than happy to be invited in for a cup of tea and a mince pie sitting by the fire in the kitchen for a warm before setting out again.
I do wish we'd been the sort of family who took pictures, but we weren't, so you will have to put up with me painting the pictures with words instead.
Bundles of cards arrived each day. We probably received two hundred or more between family, friends, tradespeople, and school. The long mantel in the front room was filled from end to end, while the bookshelves on each end had cards popped in between the covers of books so that the pictures showed to the front. Cards were placed on the sideboard, only to need rearranging ever time the door to the room was opened and they blew over in the draft! There was a big, deep windowsill, big enough to take our Christmas tree, and the space all around that was filled with cards. They overflowed, and many were stuck to the back of the door! I remember one year my mother bought these little sets of Baker's Twine and tiny gypsy style pegs. The twine was draped across the walls and the cards were pegged to the twine., like garlands around the room. A few years ago, I found the remains of twine and pegs in the attic.
On January 6th, on Epiphany, or Twelfth Night, everything Christmas, including the cards, was taken down. Ornaments were dusted and cleaned, then carefully wrapped up in tissue paper and put back in their box before being taken back up into the attic. The Christmas cards were all put in a box, and we decamped from our sojourn the front room, where we had spent the last two or three weeks, back into the living room, television on it's trolley and all!
Over the coming evenings, my poor mother spent hours going through the box of spent Christmas cards, carefully recording who had sent them and making her list of names and addresses as an aide memoir from which the Christmas card list for the following year would be prepared. The cards, now discarded, were cut up and any large, unprinted section of white card was put in the "messy drawer" to be used over the coming months for notes written to the milkman, shopping lists, and other such tasks where a small piece of paper was needed. I was given the fronts off the cards with all the pretty pictures. Using a child's safety scissors, I cut them up and played with them. I stuck some in my scrap book, used some to make collaged pictures, and I cut shapes out that were then punched with a hole and had string added to make gift tags for the following Christmas. The unusable pieces that had printing or writing on them were burned in the kitchen fire. This was how we recycled in the 1960's!
In later years, we passed our cards on to Care in the Community where they were used in the weekly craft sessions of the residents bringing them joy as they created new things from them.
Here are some photos of Christmas in Iceland where they make tree ornaments and baskets from the used Christmas cards. Shapes are cut which are then stitched together using brightly coloured yarn.
The basket at the front of the table in the third picture is made from recycled Christmas cards sewn together patchwork style. Nothing wasted! Making new things from old is not only good for the environment, but also a lot of fun too!
Until tomorrow . . .






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